“A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver. Like a gold ring or an ornament of gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear.” Proverbs 25:11-12 (ESV)
Back in 1997, I asked my son to be the guest speaker in our monthly youth service. I knew that he was struggling with his own ministry calling and I wanted to give him an opportunity to explore various options. He was all grown up and had spent the last year and half in his church’s Master’s Commission training program. I wasn’t trying to call him to preach, but there was still a lot about ministry I wanted to pass on.
That evening as I proudly introduced him and took a seat in the congregation, I wondered what he would tell the youth of our church. I wanted so much to be a blessing to them, to explain the lessons of life I’d learned, but no one wanted to listen to an old codger like me. At least no one was sitting at my feet eagerly hanging on my every word.
Jonathan began with general greetings and appreciation as any courteous guest would. Then, he began to share his personal struggles and experiences with those young people. As he was closing, he shocked me with these words: “You know, guys, most all of my personal problems could have easily been avoided, if I would have just listened to my dad and mom. So my advice to you is this, pay attention to your parents. Listen to their counsels.”
Chuck Swindoll wrote, “Words fitly spoken are powerful, But they are nothing compared to the power of a life fitly lived.” Perhaps we should concentrate on living properly rather than teaching properly. Living what we teach is more difficult; but should not be taken lightly. Hopefully, our teaching will improve too.
Dear Father, thank you for your counsels. Empower us to live and speak according to your wisdom. This I pray in the name of Jesus. AMEN
Be encouraged today in the power of living fit,