“Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.” (1Corinthians 11:1 NIV)
Back in 1997, I asked my son to speak to our youth in the monthly youth service. I knew that he was struggling with his own ministry calling and I wanted to give him an opportunity to explore various options. I wasn’t trying to call him to preach, but there was still a lot about ministry I wanted to pass on.
That evening as I proudly introduced him and took a seat in the congregation, I wondered what he would tell the youth of our church. I wanted so much to be a blessing to them, to explain the lessons of life I’d learned, but no one wanted to listen to an old codger like me. At least no one was sitting at my feet eagerly hanging on my every word.
Jonathan shared his personal struggles and experiences with those young people. Then he concluded with this powerful statement: “You know, guys, most all of my personal problems could have easily been avoided, if I would have just listened to my dad and mom. So my advice to you is this, pay attention to your parents. Listen to their counsels. Follow their examples.”
Perhaps what is influencing others is not our words but our examples. Chuck Swindoll wrote, “words fitly spoken are powerful, but they are nothing compared to the power of a life fitly lived.” Our examples are far more powerful than a hundred sermons.
Dear Father, thank you for the example you have given. Grant to us the wisdom to both live proper lives and speak proper counsel. Empower us to minister grace to those around us. I pray this in the name of Jesus. AMEN
Be courageous today in setting an example,